Part three and not final

Have you noticed time in the perspective of life, seems to go by without our noticing. We seem to keep doing and watching our life go by. We watch the news, other people, our children, we spend much of our time doing redundant things; without a thought of time passing until we notice our skin hanging, drying, and cracking. Our bodies begin to fall apart before we are ready. We think we are still young enough, though our body is saying, “I am old and finished,” regardless of how we think. It is like age comes up and looks back at us in the mirror and says,” Do you see me, are you ready?” Our bodies are ready and we aren’t. Then, we think we need to get things ready for our departure… Once again, the rush, we run out of time and our lives vanish. Do we have time or does time have us? How about, there is no time, just now! What would you do?

Now an expansion on fear; when we talk about fear most think, “A lion is chasing you!” or “Watch out for……” or“someone is after me,” few investigate what makes them react to others and do the things they do, and most, are imposed on others in the guise of love. This is ok because few are helping us see what love is, so we are winging it and mimicking what others say it is, and they, whoever they are, don’t know themselves. For example: This applies to our children also, “I might lose this person to someone else!” “If I say this or that…” “What will they do to me if?” Will I break their spirit? Will I lose their friendship? “I want to be approved of.” “I need my father or Mothers approval.” “If I do, what will they think of me or do to me?”

Without a definition of love, these reasonings would appear normal, so let’s see what happens if we define love. Love is without you, the you, I, Me, Self, you created to survive childhood. The real you, is the one that is not judging yourself or assuming possible outcomes. You are the one hiding behind the judgments, so you won’t be discovered. (Like being so fearful of others that you act tough, so others are afraid of you. The real you is selfless or unconditional, you are not the reasoner; if you where the reasoner you could not be limitless, the conditions are what limit you. So, love is allowing without the sentencing of ourselves first inside, and then others. Most would say “this is setting your-self free” and, it is setting others free because everyone is assuming our judgments upon themselves without realizing, you may not be judging them thereby creating their own prison in their own assumption. Most assumptions are based in our fears…unless we are inventing something. Assumption is a topic unto itself, as most have assumed an identity, calling it… self.

I install roofing as my trade, and many times I have been on roof’s that I could easily fall from, if I hang onto that fear, I start making mistakes; if I don’t change my focus the odds of my falling greatly increase. Fear or afraid is what causes accidents, issues, early death, and it is one of the initial three that set our self-creation into motion. When we focus on something that may cause something we do not want, we typically create that something through our focus. This is where I state” an issue is not the issue, it is the thought that there is an issue, that is the issue.” Fears in childhood begins a cycle initially based in doubting ourselves. From doubt we need to know, and we think we should, so we create. We start building what we think people want to see from us, not knowing we are seeking approval and for someone to say,” yes that’s right!” Looking around in childhood we can see we are not behaving and responding the way others are, so we begin thinking we don’t fit, or we are not the same, we might be wrong, so we need to create sameness and ok. So now that I can see this is how I should behave or be, we add this, “what we think we know,” to how we will change, our mask is beginning, and we have begun our chameleon, blending in because we think we might be wrong. This is all very subtle, and hardly noticeable. Can you see, how this might set up all types of issues? Can you see, this is how we get into our relationships? Can you see, the players…Fear, Want, and Judgment?

When you are aware of what you are and your limitlessness, the fog clears, life becomes exciting with new possibilities. When you love yourself, you can see people for what they are, and where you once were, so you connect on a deeper level with everyone. Life becomes a kaleidoscope of new and exciting adventures. You find your passion because you are your passion, that is why you are here, to express your purpose… More to come, subscribe to follow!